[improve][kafka] use config to set kafka deserialize error ignore parameter

[liunaijie]

Purpose of this pull request

now, some desrialize use hardcode value to set the deserialize error ignore value.
actually we have this config, use config to set the value

Does this PR introduce any user-facing change?

How was this patch tested?

Check list

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  5. Update connector plugin_config
• Update the release-note.

[Carl-Zhou-CN]

I believe it is necessary to add some logging for this action, as it is a risky move

[Hisoka-X]

Could you add some unit test?